We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
National Competition...
- On worries! - On worries!
(National Competition on Worries)
Let me introduce our guests for the day.
- This is Sam Okyere. - Hello.
Hello. It's nice to meet you all.
This is Kim Sae Rom.
(Kim Sae Rom)
They're Jeno and Jae Min of NCT DREAM.
(Jeno, Jae Min)
(She cheers for them despite her boyfriend's glare.)
- This is rapper GREE. - GREE.
GREE, GREE.
In one of our previous episodes,
GREE and Yeong Ja had...
- a historic moment. - Right.
- Right. - We've prepared a footage...
for those who have missed it.
- Come on. - Do we get to watch it?
- Yes. - Let's watch it.
- Come on. - The more I look at him,
the more he looks like Kim Gu Ra's son.
- Kim Gu Ra's son? - Yes.
(Everyone is flustered.)
Look at GREE's facial expression.
(What?)
(What do you mean?)
No, I'm telling you the truth.
- My father is Kim Gu Ra. - She was telling the truth.
My father is Kim Gu Ra.
- Are you serious? - Yes.
What are you doing, Yeong Ja?
- She had no idea. - She really didn't.
Did you really not know?
Well...
I'm sorry.
Not at all.
When you said your father was Kim Gu Ra,
I thought Gu Ra had another son in secret.
(She thought she made a mistake.)
She thought you were hesitant...
- to say that. - Right.
What did your friends say about the footage?
It's been 13 years since my debut.
But I still don't have any interesting footages online.
- But this one, - I see.
I'm really proud of.
So I'm actually thankful.
Let's move on. I'm too embarrassed.
- I know. - Let's hurry up.
Sam, let me ask you a question.
I heard that you obtained permanent residence recently.
Really?
(Did he really get one?)
(Congratulations)
I passed the test.
Now, I will truly become a Korean.
I heard that test is very difficult.
I heard it's even difficult for Koreans to take.
There's a category called Understanding Korean Society.
It covers Korean history, economy, society,
and all the other subjects.
I passed that test.
I heard there are times...
when you feel more Korean than you think you are.
From a certain point on, I started to care about people's age.
- People's age? - I ask my foreign friends...
how old they are.
- I get curious. - You were not interested in that.
Not at all, but now, I do.
If that person is older than me,
I become really polite.
If that person is younger,
I talk casually.
I see.
I heard Sae Rom is quite famous in the home shopping field.
- She's known to sell everything. - Yes.
Is there a secret?
I thought showing honest reactions would be best.
So when I attend one,
I purposely don't ask about their price beforehand.
And then, during the filming, they ask me how much this is.
And I say I don't know.
When they tell me the price, I go...
Since my reactions are so genuine,
people started thinking...
- that I'm very honest... - Really?
- with my reactions. - If that's the case,
if something is expensive,
you should also say, "Gosh, you're ripping me off!"
Shouldn't you?
- And I'm a professional. - Right.
Being surprised in itself won't deliver a message.
It is important to deliver a message.
"Check out this price!"
- Was that the message? - Yes.
- All that you said was "price". - If their product is so good...
- Then what? - "Check out this material!"
"Check out this material!"
NCT DREAM came out for the first time.
I heard you went...
- to the same high school. - Yes.
- Really? - What a coincidence.
Check out this coincidence!
(She immediately applies it.)
Check out their high school!
Since when were you friends?
- Since 7th grade. - Since 7th grade.
- Really? - Since seventh grade?
I'm getting sick of it now.
(Got it.)
Goodness.
I heard you released a new song.
- It's called "Boom". - "Boom".
- "Boom". - Let's hear it!
(Excited)
(They slowly dance to the rhythm.)
(Suddenly, it becomes intense.)
(They've patented...)
(this light yet powerful teen swag.)
(That was amazing.)
That was great.
You looked amazing.
They were dancing so lightly at first and then...
(In a hurry)
Since it's the summer holidays now, we've prepared...
- something special. - Right.
The people who have submitted their worries...
are much younger than usual.
If you can't sympathize with them,
just think that you've aged.
Show us the keywords, please.
(The keywords are revealed.)
"My Dad is in Danger."
- "My Boyfriend Is Too Much." - "Declaration to Leave Home".
The worries look serious.
"My Dad is in Danger."
Hello, I'm Kim Na Hyun. I'm nine years old.
My dad worries me these days.
I'm worried my dad will pass away.
(What is it?)
This is all because of his dangerous friend.
That dangerous friend of his is...
(She's curious.)
cigarettes.
I see.
This is the teacher.
"Everyone, do you see this photo?"
"If you smoke too much, your lungs blacken like so."
She's female.
(Flustered)
Please read it again.
"Everyone,"
"do you see this photo?"
"If you smoke too much, your lungs blacken like so."
"You won't be able to breathe and may die."
I think the teacher smokes.
Judging from the voice?
A teacher who smokes?
(I'm sorry.)
My teacher said you'd die if you smoked.
But my dad smokes a lot.
"Dad, stop smoking."
"You might die."
"Fine, I'll quit."
He always said he'll quit,
but he has never quitted before.
(Goodness)
"Daughter, give me a kiss."
"You stink!"
"You smoked again, didn't you?"
"Come on. You have to kiss me three times a day."
My dad stinks so much.
Do I need to force myself to kiss him? I'm so upset.
I really enjoy watching Hello.
I found Yeong Ja...
the most fun and prettiest.
Is that in the script?
Only the fun part.
(She's caught red-handed.)
(We almost got duped.)
Yeong Ja, could you help my dad quit smoking?
This is what she wrote.
(Please help my dad.)
What do you think about this worry?
Perhaps, it's because she's still young.
But she seems to be only concerned about the outer appearance.
She has no idea how he feels deep down.
As the head of the family, he must be burdened.
I can only imagine how stressed he is.
- Are you the head of your family? - No, I'm not.
Seeing how he's defending him, GREE must be a smoker too.
(He doesn't know what to say.)
You've already started.
But it's evident that for her at that age,
- this is a huge worry. - Right. It must be.
Let's bring Na Hyun out.
Come on out.
(Who is this girl who wants to save her dad from smoking?)
(She's an adorable, little kid.)
(She's so cute.)
She's so cute!
(Kim Na Hyun)
(Hi)
You're so pretty.
(She organizes her shoes.)
She's a good girl.
She's so adorable.
Introduce yourself.
Hello, I'm Na Hyun, and I'm nine years old.
- Welcome. - Welcome.
(Welcome)
Do you watch our show regularly?
I've been watching this show since I was eight.
It's entertaining how you solve people's worries.
Really?
Is Yeong Ja really that fun?
- Yes. - You wrote this, right?
I really like her.
- Is she the most fun? - Yes.
Is she the prettiest as well?
(Hesitating)
(Yeong Ja is shocked.)
The truth is revealed.
She was taught well at home.
Only the fun part is true.
- She knows lying is bad. - Exactly.
But she's cute.
- Thanks. - Right.
How often does your dad smoke?
After he comes home from work, he smokes a lot.
He smokes about three times every night.
I don't know how much he smokes at work, so I'm frustrated.
(She's frustrated and concerned.)
My gosh.
Since he smokes three times at home, you think he smokes more...
at work, and that worries you.
- What else? - What about when you go out?
When we're eating out,
there are times when he excuses himself.
Does he go out to smoke?
Yes. When we went to eat sundae soup,
he excused himself.
If he's not talking on the phone, he's out smoking.
But why is it a problem for him to excuse himself to smoke?
Because we can't chat as a family.
(My goodness)
I can't believe she said that.
We used to say that back in the days.
Do you want to chat with your family?
Yes.
(Stop smoking and chat with me.)
Does your dad smoke inside the house?
- No, right? - No.
- He smokes outside. - That's a relief.
Since he doesn't smoke inside the house...
Didn't you receive many worries regarding smoking?
- Yes. - Compared to them,
this one doesn't seem that bad.
You know Sam, don't you?
I don't?
- Really? - Really?
- Didn't you watch "Aladdin"? - I did.
- He starred in that movie. - He's in it.
- You're right. - Don't they look alike?
(The magical lamp appears.)
Tell me what you want.
- He's Genie. - He is.
- He sounded like a foreigner. - Doesn't he look like Genie?
They look a bit alike.
Right?
- All right. - She acknowledged me!
Some of our worries were about dads who smoked inside the house.
Whether he's smoking outside or inside,
- I don't like it. - Why not?
He's risking our family's health.
And when he comes back home, he stinks.
- Right. - Can you smell it?
He smells dirty.
He smells dirty?
Dirty?
How do you feel whenever you give him a kiss?
- I feel uncomfortable. - Do you?
I don't like that he smokes.
- There are also pictures on them. - Right.
- The lungs are black. - Right.
Carbon monoxide is...
- Carbon monoxide? - harmful to your health.
- And tar blackens... - She knows tar?
your lungs.
- Right. - Right.
My teacher showed us a photo.
At first, this man looked normal.
But after three months, he turned into a grandpa.
(For a 9-year-old, it's a shocking photo.)
Imagine how shocking it was for her.
I'm so scared that he'll die.
(She's concerned that he'll become ill.)
Do your friends know that your dad smokes?
Yes, they said...
my dad must be invincible.
It's because he has been smoking for more than three months...
and is still healthy.
Is your dad in bad health?
He looks healthy on the outside but...
- He at least looks healthy. - He looks healthy.
But I'm not sure that he's healthy on the inside too.
I'm worried his lungs have become black.
You're worried about his lungs. What else?
He once had a red spot on his lips.
- A red spot on his lips? - Yes.
What could that be?
A red spot on his lips?
On his lips?
- What's that? - A red spot on his lips?
Once, he was...
- eating chips. - He was eating chips.
And he broke his tooth.
While eating chips?
His teeth are a bit yellow.
You wrote, "Could you help my dad quit smoking?"
Do you think I can solve it?
My dad has to try hard too.
- That's right. - That's right.
Should I try hard too?
- Very hard. - Very hard?
Very hard.
Please say something for her.
Then...
let's meet Na Hyun's dad,
who she worries about and loves so much.
Where are you?
- Hello. - Hello.
Hello.
Do you understand why Na Hyun is so worried?
Of course, I do.
- Is that it? - So...
(You can't get away today.)
How long have you been smoking?
I started smoking in my senior year...
of high school.
- In high school? - Yes.
It's been about 25 years.
- Oh, my. - I smoke a bit more...
than a pack a day. Around a pack and a half,
- I think. - A pack and a half.
If he says that on TV, it means he smokes two packs.
I see.
He's even come on Hello.
Na Hyun thinks it's gross to kiss you.
Shouldn't you quit either smoking or kissing her?
I can quit neither.
- Of course. I understand. - How could I...
It's like asking me, "Who do you love more, Mom or Dad"?
(Unbelievable)
Smoking and kissing your daughter?
Is smoking Mom or Dad?
Is kissing Mom?
- Na Hyun's eyes look so angry. - He means it's hard to choose.
It hurts to hear that, doesn't it?
(How could he compare smoking to kissing me?)
How is your health?
Na Hyun said you broke your tooth.
- While eating chips. - In addition to that...
I get a health check-up every year...
because I drink and smoke a lot.
Are you a drinker too?
(Well...)
- Do you do both? - Yes.
What did the doctor say?
They did find something on my lungs. It has to be monitored.
Also, at my recent dentist appointment,
I was advised to get dental implants, which shocked me.
But later I found out that it's more common than I thought.
Anyway...
(What if things get worse?)
Have you ever tried to quit smoking?
I quit for 3 or 4 days with the help of medication.
But interestingly,
- You started smoking again? - I ended up quitting medications.
You quit your medications instead of smoking?
You started smoking again?
- Right. - He's very honest.
He talks about this while smiling.
- Na Hyun is serious, - Look.
- but her dad isn't. - He smiles...
like he's never experienced tar or nicotine.
He has such a bright smile.
It looks very clean.
I think Na Hyun should tell him...
how serious she is. Na Hyun.
- When I was 6, - When you were 6...
with plastic sticks and paper,
I made fake cigarettes for him.
- That's so cute. - I told him...
to smoke those instead.
- Plastic cigarettes? - Plastic cigarettes?
Plastic cigarettes.
- Plastic cigarettes. - Oh, my.
- Fake cigarettes. - How cute.
She even made a pretty case.
She even made a case for the cigarettes.
Look at this.
- It has eyes too. - Can you explain what this is?
This is a cigarette case.
- This is a cigarette. - It looks realistic.
It looks so realistic.
It means if you smoke,
your eyes will bulge out.
It means your eyes will bulge out.
Is this what happens?
Your daughter even made fake cigarettes for you.
- You must have felt... - Right.
It definitely made me realize how serious this matter was to her.
But how much would it help, really?
- So... - What?
It seems like...
- I've been smoking for too long. - He seems to be a nice person,
but he says and does...
- whatever he wants. - That's right.
Sorry.
Oh, my.
Has your daughter ever...
thrown your cigarettes away?
She's thrown away a lot.
There's a smoking area outside our building.
When I come back from there, my daughter is waiting at the door.
She searches for my cigarettes and lighter and throw them away.
- Cigarettes are expensive. - They are.
You don't want to waste them.
I let it go a couple of times.
But these days, I go and find them.
(He brings them back secretly.)
She always puts them in the trash can in the bathroom.
- But they're too expensive. - She's smart.
When I find myself rummaging through the trash can,
I feel so frustrated.
I'm dumbfounded.
(Dumbfounded)
- She's dumbfounded. - She's dumbfounded.
- You didn't know until now? - She's dumbfounded.
- She's dumbfounded. - She's dumbfounded.
He could have just not bought them in the first place.
- She's so determined. - Then he would have saved money.
She's so smart.
Have you ever tried something else?
- Have you? - I've hidden them too.
- Where? - I'm curious.
- Under the dressing table... - Under the dressing table.
and behind the bed.
- Behind the bed. - Behind the bed.
Behind the bookshelves too?
That's clever.
No one could get it out.
Only Na Hyun can.
I bought so many because they disappeared.
Anyway... All right.
I'm shocked, you brat.
"I'm shocked, you brat."
Doesn't your wife complain to you about it?
Na Hyun, please answer him.
Mom sometimes...
takes my side and tells Dad to quit smoking.
- Sometimes, she stops me. - It was Jae Min's question.
You should say it to him. You must feel shy.
No. Who is Jae Min?
That's me.
- Over here. - Jae Min, raise your hand.
- Over here. - He's a member of NCT.
Do you know NCT?
Mom sometimes takes Dad's side.
She sometimes takes Dad's side?
What does she say?
She stops me.
She stops you?
- Yes, kind of. - Really?
My big sister stops me too.
She tells me Dad must be trying to quit too.
But it doesn't seem that way to me.
Let's talk to her mom.
Hello, ma'am.
- Hello. - Hello.
Do you not nag your husband...
because Na Hyun does too much?
Yes. Na Hyun has such strong feelings against smoking.
She hates everyone who smokes.
- Even those she doesn't know? - Yes.
When someone is smoking on the street...
and the smoke comes to her,
she says, "Why is that person smoking on the street?"
"It causes other people trouble."
She says it loud enough...
- for that person to hear it. - Oh, my.
It sometimes feels dangerous.
It worries me a lot.
Your husband has been smoking all these years.
Are you okay with that?
To be honest,
I'm just as worried as Na Hyun is.
He smoked when we were dating too.
He had promised he'd quit when I got pregnant,
but that didn't happen.
- Not even when the baby was born. - Exactly.
He never quit. In the end, I asked, "When are you going to quit?"
He said, "When your father quits."
- His father-in-law? - His father-in-law?
What if he never quits?
- And then? - The thing is, my dad...
quit smoking 10 years ago.
My husband said, "In reality, your father still smokes."
He didn't quit then either.
He keeps giving excuses and goes back on his words.
So I'm very worried.
He must have had nothing else to say.
He said, "In reality, your father still smokes."
Even though her dad actually quit smoking.
(This is why I'm worried.)
Let's meet Na Hyun's big sister.
According to Na Hyun, you try to stop her...
when she tells Dad not to smoke.
Why do you do that?
She tells Dad not to smoke too aggressively.
I can give you an example.
We live on the second floor, so people outside can hear us.
Na Hyun screams, "Dad, stop smoking! Come back in!"
Dad must feel so embarrassed.
- It might have a reverse effect. - He must feel uncomfortable.
Everyone in the neighborhood can hear it.
I think it'd stress Dad out...
and make it harder for him to quit smoking.
I hope Dad will quit smoking without feeling too stressed.
- That's so thoughtful of you. - That's why I stop Na Hyun.
It's true smoking is bad,
but Dad has his pride too.
If you scream in front of other people,
wouldn't Dad feel too embarrassed?
I think his health is more important than his pride.
(His health is more important.)
- His health. - Do you believe...
- you have to be aggressive? - Yes.
Is that the only way Dad will quit smoking?
- Yes. - When I was little, in the evening,
Dad used to say he'd go out and make sure there are no ghosts.
And I believed that.
Was he smoking?
In reality, he was smoking.
"Let me go out and make sure there are no ghosts."
(That feels better.)
"There are no ghosts."
He's so good at making up excuses.
- Exactly. - From his father-in-law...
- to ghosts... - Anything else?
Once, he went on a trip abroad.
I saw a box that was this big, and there were cigarettes in it.
- He shopped at a duty-free shop. - Right. They're cheap there.
I said I would throw them out when I saw them,
and he said he bought them for his employees.
- Right. - But I think they were for himself.
- They were not for his employees? - That's right.
I buy cigarettes for myself here in Korea.
What I bought at the duty-free shop was for my employees.
He could say when he gets caught, "I am my own employee."
- "I am an employee too." - That's true.
(I'll keep an eye on you.)
I understand that she nags at me...
since she does that for my own sake.
But when I smoke...
while I'm talking about serious issues over the phone,
and she jumps at me and nags me to stop smoking...
while going through my pockets,
I lose my temper sometimes.
(He gets annoyed.)
Do you yell at her when she acts like that?
- You don't, do you? - No, I can't do that.
- You must be stressed out. - When I see her face,
- I can't get mad at her. - Of course.
I know I should quit smoking.
However, I work as an interior contractor.
A lot of accidents and incidents happen at work.
There's culture of drinking coffee or smoking cigarettes...
with work colleagues after finishing each process.
- I see. - It's culture...
- in this field. - Right.
It's an excuse though. Of course, some people don't smoke.
- It's an excuse. - Yes.
(Yes, it's an excuse.)
(I know you're stressed from work, but I'm worried about your health.)
How do you want your dad to relieve stress?
What do you think is a better way?
I think he should go to bed early,
and wake up at the hour he used to wake up.
(She's worried that her dad may get too tired.)
I think... I think it'd be better if he plays with his phone...
instead of smoking.
Na Hyun, do you ever get stressed out?
I get stressed out sometimes.
- What's the cause? - What stresses you out?
I get stressed out when I solve difficult questions while studying,
and when my dad smokes.
I see. What do you do to get rid of stress?
I dance and draw to do so.
How about you show us your dance...
- so we can learn? - Can you show us?
It will be fun.
- Your dad can learn it too. - Exactly.
Your dad can try the same thing.
Whenever he craves a cigarette,
he can stand up and dance.
- That's a great idea. - Yeong Ja.
(I'm fine.)
What song do you want to dance to?
"Gotta Go" by Chung Ha.
("Gotta Go" by Chung Ha)
(Powerful, girl crush worthy dance)
(The charismatic face is the point of the dance.)
- "Gotta Go"? - Okay.
Music, please.
(Everyone is excited.)
- Will you be okay alone? - Yes.
How adorable.
(Her eyes sparkle.)
Oh, my.
(Charismatic)
(It seems like she has done it many times before.)
(Stress, get out of my way.)
(She walks in a disciplined way wearing lace socks.)
(She looks so serious.)
(I really hate cigarettes.)
(Flailing)
(She's so cute.)
She's cute.
(She's dancing in the hope that her dad will quit smoking.)
(Please quit smoking.)
Wait, Na Hyun.
It's probably hard for your dad to memorize all the dance moves.
So show him the part that helps to relieve stress the most...
so he can try it.
I think this part would be easy for him.
Show him. Ready, go.
- One... - Put your hands together. And then,
move your shoulders like this.
Okay. Sir, she says it's the best dance move...
(Dad, you saw it, right?)
- to relieve stress. - How adorable.
Ready, go.
Midnight
(Dancing awkwardly)
(I'm so embarrassed.)
- He can't do it. - Sir, doesn't it feel good?
Show me what you'll do when you're stressed out.
Midnight
(He gives up.)
(Thanks to you, we relived stress too.)
Instead of saying,
"We know it's hard, but you can do it if you keep trying."
"We both have faith in you", what if your parents yell,
"Do your homework now. Go study" whenever they see you?
You would get stressed out so much, right?
If you keep nagging at your dad whenever you see him,
he would only get stressed out without quitting smoking.
If you encourage him and say he can do it,
it can help him decide to quit smoking.
- You should cheer for him. - You can cheer for him, right?
- Can you do that from now on? - Yes.
And sir, before we wrap up, I'd like to tell you...
that it's important to keep your promise to your daughter,
but more importantly, you said...
- you found a lump in your lung. - Yes.
- It can be dangerous. - You're right.
If you fall down, your entire family will fall down too.
- Yes. - I think you should start trying.
Of course.
Na Hyun, I've been lying to you.
But since there are so many people here,
I promise I'll quit smoking starting today,
- so watch and see. - You'll quit smoking today?
- Yes. I mean it. - Sir.
- You should start by cutting back. - That's not realistic.
(He's lying again!)
(I won't be fooled anymore!)
- Why? What did she do? - You should trust him.
Why did you do this?
I've tried to quit smoking many times until now.
But I failed to do so.
However, I believe I should quit smoking once and for all now.
- You need to be determined to quit. - Right.
Na Hyun, don't worry too much.
I will really become an invincible man...
who doesn't smoke cigarettes.
So let's live a long, happy life together.
Na Hyun, I love you.
(Na Hyun, I love you.)
(You will trust your dad, won't you?)
What will you do for your dad if he keeps his promise?
I will give him 5 kisses instead of 3.
That would be wonderful.
She'll give him five kisses.
(She's so lovely.)
Dad, I'm sorry that I've been too harsh on you...
telling you to quit smoking.
(I'm sorry I've been too harsh.)
From now on, I won't tell you to quit smoking...
too many times.
I'll just say it once in a while.
Na Hyun.
- Since you're here, - She's so adorable.
tell him how much you love him.
Dad, I love you to the moon and back.
That's the best thing to hear.
Na Hyun, make a heart for him.
(She bursts into tears.)
She loves her dad so much.
- Sir, come down to the stage. - Don't cry.
- You love your dad so much. - Your dad is here.
Na Hyun, give your dad a hug.
She's adorable.
Oh, no.
(I did it because I was worried you might get sick.)
(Dad, don't get sick.)
(Na Hyun loves and cares about her dad more than anyone else does.)
- Na Hyun, give him a kiss now. - Give me a kiss.
Good. 3 times. 2 and 3.
(Thank you for worrying about me.)
(I won't lie to you anymore.)
Let's start with Jae Min. Do you think it's a worry?
I don't think it's a worry.
I think they can resolve it through a conversation.
And when he looks at Na Hyun,
- he seems so affectionate. - That's right.
I believe he will change.
I don't think it's a worry.
I don't think it's a worry since I trust he'll quit this time.
- What will you do, GREE? - Pardon me?
(Why would you say it to only me?)
Stop it teasing him.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Please show us the result.
Out of 200 people,
how many votes did she get?
(What could be the result?)
78 votes.
(78 votes)
"My Boyfriend Is Too Much".
I wonder what is too much about her boyfriend.
Hello. I'm a woman in my 20s,
and I'm enjoying a romantic college life.
- She's in the prime of her life. - Exactly.
I have a boyfriend in the same department...
who loves me dearly.
(She has a boyfriend in the same department who loves her dearly.)
But every day at school is stressful to me.
(The romance is ruined.)
"Oh, there's Min Ah. Hi, Min Ah."
(Laughing)
- What was that? - Why did you suddenly laugh?
My boyfriend has a loud voice, so he draws attention...
of the people who are even 100m away from him.
- He has a loud voice. - That's not all.
He's also overly energetic and enthusiastic.
He's too much always.
While walking on the street, he says,
"Oh, my. It's odd. I think I'm unusually excited today."
"Shall I sing a song?"
What's that?
Oh, my goodness.
Then I say,
"Stop it. What's wrong with you?"
"People are looking at us."
"I don't care. I'm so excited."
(He keeps his cheerful energy up.)
Therefore, people around me often say,
"Why would you go out with a man like him?"
"Exactly."
"Why would you date a guy like him?"
"You have an unusual preference in men."
Whenever I hear things like this, I feel so upset.
"Honey, can you please keep it down a little?"
"I feel a little embarrassed."
"I'm sorry. Was I too loud?"
"I'll be careful from now on. Oh, there's Min Jeong over there."
"Min Jeong! Hi, Min Jeong!"
(He's unbelievable.)
What should I do about my boyfriend?
- Please help to calm him down. - To calm him down.
That's so funny.
He's not cranky or picky.
He's just too excited.
I'm sorry, but I'll be outside...
and sit this one out.
(She's also a very energetic person.)
- Right. - I'm also always too excited.
So I can't understand how she must feel.
"What's wrong about that?"
"Why would they criticize me for being excited?"
"Why would they criticize me for expressing my sorrow?"
I can relate to this story.
I had a girlfriend when I was a college freshman.
I was loud and overly excited just like him.
When I met her, I said hi to her very excitedly.
But she told me that I was too loud.
- Right. - But I didn't know I was loud.
- You didn't realize it? - I thought I had no problem,
- but she said I was too loud. - It's possible.
It made me upset.
We shouldn't have come on the show today.
- We'll sit this one out. - The two of you are famous...
for being always optimistic and having a loud voice.
It makes them special like Ro Hong Chul.
Ro Hong Chul and Kim Young Chul.
It worked out well for them.
- However, you know what? - They don't stop talking.
Both Hong Chul and Young Chul have so much cheerful energy.
But they avoid each other.
(Please refrain yourself.)
Let's meet our guest. Please come out.
Please come out.
(She's worried about her boyfriend who is unusually cheerful!)
Sam, please escort her.
[VIU Ver] E423 Hello Counselor "My Boyfriend Is Too Much" -♥ Ruo Xi ♥-
(Excited)
(Lee Min Ah)
My goodness.
Oh, dear.
She's here to talk about her boyfriend,
and a man just like her boyfriend is waiting for her.
- I bet he's even more cheerful. - Could Sam be her boyfriend?
He makes you feel cheerful too.
How serious is the issue to make you send us your story?
My boyfriend is very different...
- from ordinary people. - I see.
Is he always too excited?
He's overly excited all the time.
Usually, people say hi when their friends come close.
But he says hi so loudly to someone who is distant from him.
He even has good eyesight.
Exactly. He has good eyesight.
- That's right. - It's hard to recognize people...
- who are 100m away from you. - He has good eyesight.
Sometimes, it makes me uncomfortable.
I've even run away from him because I was embarrassed.
- Does he recognize them correctly? - Yes.
- But... - He has really good eyesight.
- He has such good eyesight. - Right.
We're majoring in acting and musical theater.
- You're majoring in acting? - Yes.
So we get a lot of chances to watch theater performances.
One day, we went to watch a theater play.
During the play, he suddenly said,
"Min Ah, I need to go to the restroom."
"I'll go to the restroom." This is loud enough in a theater.
"I'll go to the restroom."
Everyone in the audience must've known he was going to the restroom.
"I guess he's going to the restroom."
"I've been having the stomach flue since yesterday."
(This is only the beginning.)
Some people have a louder voice than others.
I don't understand why it's a problem.
I know, but during a class...
- What does he do in a class? - I can hear...
the laughter of the person that seems to be her boyfriend.
- I can hear it. - I can hear his voice.
- While I was reading her story, - Right. I heard him too.
- he laughed loudly. - As soon as you started reading.
The other people were laughing normally, but he was like...
(Laughing loudly)
(Laughing)
He just laughed again.
- Then... - That's how he laughs.
My goodness.
That's his laughter.
- That's the voice I heard. - I think he faked it.
- Please continue. - Whenever the professor speaks,
he answers so loudly like this. "Yes! Yes! I understand!"
- I know what she means. - So he keeps answering...
- to everything the professor says? - Yes.
- The professor told him to stop. - "Don't speak while I'm talking."
"Be quiet."
My close friends came to me and said...
that he causes disruption in classes.
- That's possible. - Right.
- That he interrupts the classes. - They told you instead of him.
And while we're walking on the street,
he suddenly starts singing.
I'm sure he wants to sing he's an aspiring musical actor.
Well... He doesn't want to become a musical actor.
- Gosh. Hold on. - Besides,
he's not good at singing.
- Really? - He's not a good singer?
He likes to sing when he's not a good singer.
And he has a loud voice.
Some people posted anonymous posts on our school website...
saying, "Shut your mouth."
Many people swear at him on the website.
"What kind of jerk is singing in the middle of the night?"
People use swear words like this.
- My gosh. - It makes me upset...
- whenever I read such comments. - Of course.
That's unbelievable.
You also said that your friends told you...
- to stop dating him. Is it true? - I think it's too harsh.
Yes. When I heard it,
- I got so angry and cried a lot. - Oh, no.
I begged him in tears.
I said I didn't want anything else from him.
You asked him to be less enthusiastic.
- You never knew it'd be a problem. - She's nice.
I asked him to keep his voice down...
a little bit. Although I sincerely asked him for that,
he didn't last even a few minutes.
(He didn't try to understand how she felt.)
Before you decided to come on this show,
I'm sure you thought of breaking up with him many times.
- I did consider leaving him. - Really?
- But it's what other people think. - That's right.
I thought it shouldn't be the reason for a breakup.
You're right. "Why did you break up with him?"
"He was overly cheerful."
- That would be weird. - Exactly.
In fact, I used to have negative points of view...
- about society. - I see.
Since my boyfriend has such an optimistic perspective,
he changed my perspective in a positive way.
And because of that,
I couldn't just leave him like that.
She has a good heart.
(I hope he'll just calm down a bit.)
Now let's meet her boyfriend...
who is always overly excited.
- Hello. - Hello.
It's nice to meet you all.
(He really is unusually cheerful.)
It has begun.
Hello.
(Part 2 will begin shortly.)
Now let's meet her boyfriend...
who is always overly excited. Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
It's nice to meet you all.
(Who is her boyfriend who's always cheerful?)
(He gets excited even before he's called.)
(I am really excited right now.)
Can you understand why your girlfriend is worried?
Yes, I understand.
My girlfriend has been having a hard time because of me.
Please explain.
(There's something unusual about him.)
If she's having a hard time, you should try to change.
Why don't you do anything to change?
I like being around people.
So when she tells me to keep my voice down,
I try to keep it down intentionally.
But if I see a friend passing by,
I forget what she said. All I can think of is my friend.
(He's back to the cheerful mode.)
I say, "Hi!" Like this.
You're not acting now, right?
- No, I'm not. - He makes gestures like this.
- Like this. - Exactly.
Then show us how you usually say hi to your girlfriend...
when you meet her...
- at school. - Okay.
Hi, Min Ah!
(He's like a human megaphone.)
(My goodness!)
- Do you speak that loudly? - Does he really do that?
- Yes. - Is he that loud?
- Yes. - Really?
It's hard for me since it's too much.
How good is your eyesight?
- 2.0 and 1.5. - Goodness gracious.
- Goodness gracious. - He has such good eyesight.
So you can recognize people from a long distance.
He has perfect eyesight.
He's like a Mongolian when it comes to eyesight.
- He can see everything. - Riding a horse.
Did you know that her friends...
have been telling her to break up with you...
- and complaining about you? - I know...
that they complained to her about me.
However...
(The cheerful mode is off.)
when I was in elementary school,
I learned the importance of looking others in the eye...
- while talking to them. - That's great.
So whatever others say,
I can't hear them because I fix my eyes on Min Ah.
That's cool.
- Thank you. - That's a good mindset.
(Compliments make her boyfriend excited.)
However...
But you could have...
at least refrained yourself from singing on the street.
When I get excited, it's hard for me to stay calm.
- Of course. I fully understand you. - I wonder...
how you sing on the streets.
Well... May I stand up and sing?
- Yes, of course. - That'd be great. I knew it.
He's so cheerful.
He said yes right away.
(Why does he have to sing even on this show?)
So he starts singing on the street when he gets excited, right?
- While walking. - I'll begin.
(Curious)
(I'm afraid for some reason.)
(My heart pounds hard)
My heart pounds hard
The moment I see you
(He tries to look serious.)
(I think my dance was better than this.)
- That's all. Thank you. - What was that?
It wasn't so bad.
You know the song that aspiring musical actors often sing...
- What was the song title? - "This Is the Moment".
- Right. Sing a song like that. - Right.
Okay.
(He starts singing right away as if he was waiting for this.)
(He sings hard and gets excited alone.)
He's not tone-deaf. He's good.
- He's not tone-deaf? - He's not?
- I am sorry, but... - He's not tone-deaf.
Thank you.
(He reacts passionately.)
(They make a great team.)
(It's time to wake up to reality.)
Everyone is copying.
You are not completely tone-deaf.
- But you are very close. - Right.
You are slightly better than someone who's tone-deaf.
- Right. - What's your dream?
My dream is becoming a comedian.
(Comedian)
- Is that right? - You are doing well then.
Thank you.
(Thank you, Sam.)
(I can't lose to you.)
Why do you want to become a comedian?
When I was in first year of middle school...
I am small now, but I used to be even smaller.
On TV, I saw Mr. Kim Byung Man...
making people laugh.
I realized you can make people laugh even if you are small.
I was touched by Byung Man...
and got a dream of becoming a comedian.
Did you know that your boyfriend wants to become a comedian?
Yes. That worries me more.
- Why? - What's up with being a comedian?
He's never...
serious about anything.
- I know that. - That's very bad.
Even if I try to say something serious,
he keeps trying to be funny. He keeps acting silly.
- That's bad. - He makes jokes.
I think I am serious 365 days a year.
- But she doesn't think so. - Then we have nothing to say.
- He just doesn't know the problem. - He doesn't know.
How are his wits?
He looks sharp. He looks like a quick-witted man.
He's slow-witted too.
- Oh, my gosh. - On a street...
I wanted him to feel embarrassed one day,
so I sang on a street.
Then he sings along.
"This is so fun, Min Ah."
"Can't we do this all the time?"
- He's that slow-witted. - Yes.
We were walking on a street, and someone asked me,
"Why are you staring at me?"
"Do you know me?" He suddenly picked a fight.
- Suddenly? - He and I fought,
and he threatened to hit me.
But my boyfriend was just watching.
- When he was next to you? - That's the only time...
he gets quiet.
He didn't stop the man?
- He didn't. - That's when he gets quiet.
When another man treats your girlfriend badly,
you feel upset. "To my girl?"
Right.
In my head, I was stopping him.
(He's a pacifist.)
But...
You stopped him in your head.
But... Listen.
(He's always like that.)
- Many people... - Since it was in your head,
you should've beaten him up.
I couldn't get upset in front of many people back then.
I couldn't say harsh things to another person.
- It's not in your nature. - You are too good.
I couldn't say harsh things to another person.
An upper-class student at the school dormitory...
must've looked down on him.
He suddenly hit his head and walked past him.
- For no reason? - Even then he didn't get upset.
"I am okay, Min Ah. Are you all right?"
- He was rather worried about me. - It's frustrating.
There was a student from the same major.
One day, his friend...
told me that he was spreading rumors...
that my boyfriend is a weird person.
When my boyfriend found out about it,
he could have gotten upset.
But he didn't seem upset at all.
When that guy asked him for a favor,
he even ran an errand for the guy.
He even responded to his jokes.
"I am sorry to keep putting you in these situations."
He keeps apologizing to me,
- Right. - It's frustrating.
(It's frustrating that he doesn't know how to get upset.)
(He is too soft-hearted.)
I suddenly became curious.
How did you two end up dating?
We used to be friends.
You used to be friends.
I had an ex-boyfriend,
and we had a big fight.
He comforted me a lot.
While comforting you, he fell for you.
That's perfect timing.
How did he comfort you?
He acted silly and did funny things...
to make me laugh.
I liked that about him at the time.
- Right. - You liked it only then.
Now...
Did you have a girlfriend before?
I know it's hard to believe, but she's my first girlfriend.
- It's not hard to believe. - We can believe it.
- We can believe it. - My goodness.
- We have no problem believing it. - We can believe it.
What do you like so much about your girlfriend?
She clearly expresses what she hates and what she likes.
She clearly expresses herself, and it's just what I like.
If there's something you don't like, you can't say it?
I can do it now.
But before I started to date her...
(Is he crying because he's too grateful?)
- I had to sneeze. - You had to sneeze.
That was funny.
- He was about to sneeze. - I know that.
That's the most painful thing.
- You want to, but you can't sneeze. - You can't sneeze.
It's the most frustrating for the people watching.
Of course.
What was your question?
Right. Ask him the question again.
We asked what you liked so much about your girlfriend.
Before I met her,
I couldn't say no to anything.
- I see. - I said yes to everything.
But now I can say no to the things I don't want.
(That's good to hear.)
Their college friend is here.
Let's talk to her.
- Hello. - Hello.
Hello.
Can you sympathize with his girlfriend?
When I was talking to him for the first time,
I found him too hyper.
And I wanted to avoid him.
But after we became close,
I realized he is a very kind-hearted and naive person.
When we were doing group projects, a lot of times...
upper-class students didn't give him anything to do...
saying that they couldn't rely on him.
- People are prejudiced. - Yes.
They said he must be bad at doing things.
- Even professors... - Even professors?
keep looking down on him.
"Stay still. Keep your mouth shut."
- Whenever I see that, - You feel sad.
- I feel very sad. - You'd feel sad.
I think people should be cherished.
I didn't want to say no to my people and lose them.
I believed...
that they were my people.
Of course people are precious.
As you live life, you get hurt by people.
But it's people who heal you too.
In the end, it's all about people.
But did something happen to make you...
think that way at such a young age?
I started to think that way...
because of something that happened.
Because of something that happened.
(Right)
We say this and that, and...
He...
- It's frustrating. - He's got the strange...
power to make us concentrate.
"He's going to say something, right?"
What happened?
Tell us.
I said that I want...
my friends to stay...
- being my friends. - Right.
In middle and high school,
because of my personality and voice,
I got outcasted.
(He got outcasted in school.)
I got beaten up a lot. I did other kids' homework.
My friends left me one by one.
(His friends left him one by one.)
So...
my anger emotion got paralyzed.
Because whenever I tried to get upset,
they looked at me with glaring eyes...
and said, "What are you trying to do?"
- They could beat you even harder. - They would bully him more.
Yes. So I learned to suppress my anger.
After living like that, I became immune to it.
(It became his habit to suppress his anger.)
In college,
I didn't want to act stupid again.
So I treated my friends better.
But they still said, "Why is she hanging out with him?"
People whispered,
and it broke my heart.
(It must've been very tough for him.)
You must've had a lot of worries before coming here.
Why did you decide to send us the letter?
Even if we break up...
(Thinking about what he must've gone through makes her emotional.)
He's not a strange person.
He's not stupid.
I want people to stop...
looking at him with strange eyes.
(She wants people to stop looking at him with prejudice.)
She must be one of the people...
- who understand him the best. - Right.
She must understand him as well as his family.
She wanted to come out here...
and openly tell the people that he's a great person.
(He's a great person.)
(We hope it will reach people.)
Now, what are the specific things you want...
- from your boyfriend? - Right.
I want him to lower his voice so that people won't...
think he's a strange person.
I want him to express his anger when he's upset.
I want him to express his emotion clearly.
Can you give her what she wants?
I can.
He spoke quietly.
When you watch this show, you will realize...
that your voice sounded amazing...
when you were talking calmly about your emotion.
- It did? - Right.
You don't have to speak loudly...
and act bubbly...
for people to like you.
I think that's what you think you should do to be liked.
I want you to honestly reveal your emotions.
Also, you need to practice how to ventilate your anger.
Let's say your girlfriend is fighting someone.
As her boyfriend, you should get upset.
- Yes. - Do you want to practice?
That sounds good.
- Try your best. - Be serious.
Don't try to be funny. Be serious...
- and express your anger. - Right.
(The Kindest Man in the World)
Your boyfriend looked at me.
That's why I am upset. How dare you look at me straight in the eyes?
Hey.
That's why I am upset. How dare you look at me straight in the eyes?
(Hey!)
(Isn't that it?)
- He's cute. - Good.
- That was good. - A little more.
A little more.
Who do you think you are?
- I... - Why are you yelling at her?
Don't do that.
She's younger than me,
and she's yelling at me. That's why I'm yelling at her.
Is age your social rank? It's not.
Since when did you talk so well?
(He almost got hurt.)
That was good.
- He's good. - Yes.
You should practice revealing your emotion.
- Okay. - Right.
I want to praise you. You are amazing as you are.
Even if you don't overdo things,
you are great as you are.
- Don't get intimidated by anyone. - Okay.
- Of course. - You look intimidated.
- Be confident. - Don't be intimidated.
- Yes. - You are a man.
- I am a man. - And...
get into the habit of listening to what other people have to say.
If you listen to other people well, you will become good friends.
Right.
(I will cheer for you.)
Lastly, say something to your girlfriend.
Min Ah.
It's been really tough because of me, hasn't it?
From now on, I will help you so that things won't get tough.
I want you to have faith in me.
I love you.
All right. You should've lowered your voice at the end.
Right.
You were doing so well.
I was getting tearful.
But the tears went away when he said "I love you".
Min Ah, I love you with all my heart. I love you.
- That was good. - That was good.
Try greeting her. Don't yell, "Min Ah!"
Say, "Hello, Min Ah."
"Hello, Min Ah."
- He can do it. - He can.
(He speaks softly.)
- You can do it. - That's it.
- That was good. - That was much better.
- That was good. - That's it.
Is it a worry or not, Jae Min?
If I were her, it would worry me a lot.
I think it's a worry.
It's a big worry...
for her to handle alone.
- That's what I think. - So it's a worry.
He's still young.
Serving in the military might solve the problem.
But I think it's a problem now.
Did you serve in the army?
- I've experienced the life. - You've experienced the life.
The experience changes you.
- It changes the way you... - He doesn't have to do that.
He doesn't have to serve in the military?
- He's a public service worker. - I'm a public service worker.
- He will still be trained. - Then it's a worry.
(Sam thinks it's a worry.)
He will get better once he gets trained.
I also think it's a worry.
If you sympathize with her, please press the button.
I am curious.
(What does the audience think?)
All right.
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
"My Boyfriend Is Too Much".
- 2. - Is it over 100?
- What a perfect title. - It's over 100.
100...
Out of 200, how many votes did she get?
100...
162.
That's a big number.
162 votes.
"Declaration to Leave Home".
Hello.
I am a 12-year-old girl who wants to live alone quietly.
- I... - Is it fun? Jeno is surprised.
It's my first time to see this in person.
Hello, Jeno.
(Hello, Jeno.)
(I love it.)
These days, I feel like leaving home.
It's because of this person who I want to get rid of from my life.
"Did you not see my Slime?"
"I haven't seen it."
"You're lying. You hid it. Hurry up and give it to me."
"I am going to pinch you!"
My 10-year-old little sister keeps pinching me and punching me.
What's worse is this.
"Let me play with you too, sis."
"I'm going to go on top of you."
(Shouting in pain)
I have a nine-year-old brother too.
- Nine years old. - It's fine.
My two little siblings keep following me and torturing me.
I feel like escaping this house.
Feeling sad, I told my mom about it.
"But your siblings are young."
"You should talk to them nicely."
So I tried to talk to them and also scolded them.
But my friends won't change.
Gosh, what's life?
- Oh, dear. - And what's death?
I can't stop crying. Things keep repeating,
and now I just don't want to live anymore.
Please help me get rid of the stress.
(Please stop my siblings from bothering me.)
It's a legitimate worry.
How is it for you, Sam? How many siblings do you have?
There are seven children in my family.
Where do you fit in?
I am the second. I have five little siblings.
She must've gone through so much.
She went through so much.
I completely sympathize with her.
She's suffering so much because of her two little siblings.
- You have five little siblings. - Right.
How was it? How did you put your little siblings under control?
I was the problematic one.
Why? What did you do?
I did a lot of bad things.
For example, when we were young,
my parents wanted to have what they called a "hot night".
I didn't know what they meant.
So I tried burning their mattress.
I thought if I burnt it...
- Then it would be a hot night. - It would be a hot night.
- He took it literally. - He took it literally.
He's such a devoted son.
(Sam was burning with his love for his parents.)
It's embarrassing.
(I love Sam.)
Right now, she's very stressed out because of her young siblings.
The letter is from a 12-year-old girl.
- Please come on out. - Please come on out.
(Who thought of running away from home because of her siblings?)
(Jang Su Bin)
Be careful.
(Jang Su Bin)
My goodness.
- Hold his hands. - This way.
Come this way.
Do you want to introduce yourself?
Hello.
I am a 12-year-old girl who feels like dying because of her siblings.
(She sounds so grim.)
She really sounds like she feels like dying.
- What's going on? - It was like she was rapping.
She only introduced herself, but she already sounds worried.
Can you introduce yourself once again with a loud voice?
Hello.
I am a 12-year-old girl who really feels like dying...
because of her little siblings.
Well done.
Her voice sounds serious enough.
Everyone here will side with you...
and focus on what you have to say.
So say everything you want to say.
We even got you a matching cushion.
- Right. - Did you see how they're matching?
Look at her socks.
They are matching.
They are matching too.
You are amazing.
But is it bad enough to take it to Hello?
Do they bully you enough for you to send a letter to us?
Yes. My second sister...
pinches me, scratches me, and hits me.
- She does that to you. - She scratched me here.
- There's a scar. - She still has a scar.
- Look at the scar. - She still has a scar.
Even when we were waiting in the waiting room,
she scratched me and slapped my face.
- She slapped your face? - In the waiting room?
Yes.
Yesterday,
Mom bought french fries for us.
My sister didn't want to eat it, so I ate it.
And she said, "Why are you eating my french fries?"
When she said she didn't want it?
She's ridiculous.
- She said she didn't want it. - Right.
My little brother these days think his second sister is easy to bully.
So he bullies me and my sister.
Now he's the king.
The youngest is the king?
- The third child. - He's looking at us,
and he looks very scary.
(He's got the aura of a scary man.)
Among the things they do, what do you hate the most?
I hate it when they barge into my room.
- Right. - You are at the sensitive age.
They stay in my room. They play games and read books.
Maybe they don't have rooms of their own?
No, they have their own rooms.
I'm jealous. I still don't have a room of my own.
Why do they come to your room then?
(The married man speaks his mind.)
They have a bunker bed.
Their beds are even softer.
And yet they take over my desk and my bed.
I have no freedom.
Why didn't you scold them whenever they did that?
Even if I scold them, it's useless.
My second sister never reflects on her actions.
- How do you scold them? - How do you do it?
Let's hear it.
"Don't bully the cat."
Is that scolding?
- Yes. - You don't sound scary.
- It's too weak. - It's too weak.
(But I was trying to be harsh.)
Do your parents not say anything to them?
- I am curious about that. - Don't they stop your siblings?
Until last summer, my parents yelled at them.
But these days, Mom says,
"You guys figure it out on your own."
That's all she does.
How about your father?
Dad only sides with my sister.
- He sides with your sister? - He does?
- What does he do? - He saw her...
hitting me and bullying me. He saw it with his two eyes.
But when I scold my sister,
he tells me not to scold her too much.
How does that make you feel?
It makes me feel like nobody is on my side.
You feel that way.
(Oh, dear.)
Her brother looks too cool.
Let's meet her siblings.
- He looks charismatic. - Let's greet her sister. Hello.
Hello. Grab the mic.
(Look at her brother's swag.)
(I am the boss of this family.)
(The third child...)
(will let us know real fear.)
(The second child)
(Am I shivering right now?)
Hello.
She is pretending to be so cute.
(She is pretending to be so cute.)
I am Jang Yun Seo.
Jang Yun Seo.
Did you know that your sister was struggling?
Yes.
Why do you think she is struggling?
Because we gave her a hard time.
How do you feel upon hearing her story?
We were in the wrong.
She quickly admitted that she was in the wrong.
- Seriously. - She admitted it...
and reflected upon herself.
Do you want to be done with this?
(It's not like that.)
Why did you scratch your sister...
before the shoot?
She slapped me first.
- What? - Did you slap her first?
(The tables have turned.)
What is going on?
- She slapped me first. - What is going on?
We can't side with you if that's true.
She picked a fight with me...
and scratched me.
After I slapped her, she slapped me as well.
(They attacked each other.)
When I hit her once, she hits me twice.
(The sisters are at war.)
Perhaps your siblings want to play with you.
- Perhaps they behave that way... - That's right.
because you don't play with them.
- I admit I didn't play with them. - She admitted it too.
- The sisters admit quickly. - I know.
My siblings ask me to do a role-play.
Most of the times, I die.
You play a character who dies.
It's boring and meaningless.
Can you give us an example?
- We play characters in a castle. - A castle.
- A castle? - We play characters in a castle.
They don't want to play a character that dies.
They throw a tantrum if they get such characters.
They play a princess and a prince. How about you?
- A vassal. - A vassal?
A vassal.
Hey, that's nothing.
My siblings made me play the castle.
They made me play the castle.
- I once played a building. - A building!
That's cute.
At least you got to play a person.
You made it sound like...
your younger siblings are the worst.
From what we heard, they look pretty nice.
That's right.
They act nice in the presence of other people.
They turn into demons when they are with the family.
They act differently.
Some people are like that. They are nice to everyone...
except for the family.
Let me ask them.
Is your sister right? Is it a misunderstanding?
I think she is right.
- She admitted it. - I didn't expect her to do that.
- She admitted it. - My goodness.
Everyone in this family admits quickly.
Su Bin, how do you think...
your younger siblings see you?
I think they see me as a naive and easy target.
(Don't be like that to your older sister.)
Do you think she is a naive and easy target?
(She admits by keeping quiet.)
- She admits again. - What is Su Bin to you?
A victim.
Your victim?
She is my victim.
She thinks that.
(This is a bit serious.)
I want to hear from the youngest one too.
Let's meet the president.
(Here comes the president.)
- The president. - He is a big shot.
Hello. Can you introduce yourself?
My goodness.
I am sorry, Mr. President.
Do you also bully Su Bin often?
- Do you think that? - Yes.
(It's in their DNA to admit without reluctance.)
(Why do you bully me if you know what you are doing?)
Why do you bully Su Bin? It's hard on her.
She always says no.
(When did I do that?)
She has a doll she loves.
When I asked her if I can play with it, she said no.
She didn't let me play games on her phone.
How do you bully her?
I climb up on her...
or tie her favorite doll.
- What do you do to the doll? - Do you bury it?
- Do you tie it? - He ties it.
Where does he tie it?
A chair leg.
Does he tie it to a chair leg?
What did the doll do wrong?
Does it pain you?
- Does it pain you? - It pains me.
- It pains her. - Of course.
Yun Seo is a bit annoying too.
(I have no allies.)
That came out of nowhere.
- Tell us everything. - Why is she annoying?
She hits and scratches me.
One time, I was lying on my back,
and she stepped on my private part.
It was a mistake!
(That's too much.)
She did it on purpose, but claimed it was a mistake.
- It really was a mistake. - She lied.
Yun Seo, be quiet.
(Be quiet.)
- Let him speak. - Gosh.
(What should I do with them?)
Let's talk to the parents.
Hello.
(Laughing)
(My goodness.)
- It's nice to meet you. - Hello.
(They are look-alikes.)
You know,
the five family members resemble each other a lot.
(They are a family of look-alikes.)
Your eldest daughter came to Hello because of a worry.
Did you know she was struggling this badly?
Yes. We watched an episode...
in which a girl her age revealed a worry...
- about her younger sibling. - I remember that.
(I want my younger sibling to disappear.)
(I want to die.)
She cried as she watched that episode.
It made me think, "She must be under a lot of stress."
She related to that worry.
Why did you relate to that worry?
That girl was suffering tremendously because of her younger sibling.
Hearing her story...
You related to that worry.
That's why you shed tears upon watching Hello?
Yes.
(It felt like my story.)
How did you feel when she wanted to leave the house?
I was really shocked.
Before that, Su Bin has never been...
a problematic child.
She had always been nice and upright,
so I never worried about her.
But things changed about half a year ago.
She calls me in tears after school.
- "Mom, don't die." - My goodness.
"Live with me for many years to come."
"Live with me and Dad for many years to come."
She cries.
(She tears up again.)
Su Bin said you don't give her enough attention.
That's why she feels alone. What do you think about that?
I can't say it's true.
I can't side with one child.
That's right. It must be hard on you too.
That's why I always tell them to play along with each other.
All three of them are very different.
- That's right. - They are different.
- Children are very different. - Yes.
(Even at this moment...)
Mr. President.
(He put one leg up.)
(You should sit properly.)
- It's okay. - You can put your leg up.
(Hesitant)
(I will do what I want.)
(Happy)
(He has the swagger of a president.)
(He is proud to do what he wants.)
(Sighing)
Let's hear from Su Bin's dad.
I had a hunch,
but I didn't know the problem was so serious.
- But... - Su Bin said earlier that...
you always side with Yun Seo.
I can see why she misunderstood.
They say love for the first child is the most intense.
When you bite your ten fingers, your thumbs hurt the most.
(What?)
- What? - But...
Do your thumbs hurt the most?
Pinky fingers hurt the most.
They hurt the most.
- My first child is... - The saying we know is,
"When you bite your ten fingers, all of them hurt."
Since you say your thumbs hurt the most,
I want to see if it's true.
- Go ahead. - Love for the first child...
can be very intense.
I doted on her when she was little.
But since she grew older, I am more careful...
so that her siblings don't think...
I favor her.
So I say, "You are the eldest. Take care of your siblings."
"Don't get angry at them. Yield to them."
I think these words caused a misunderstanding...
- and hurt her feelings. - That's right.
"You are the eldest, so you need to do this and that."
My mom always tells my siblings, "You must be happy..."
"to have a nice sister."
She tells your siblings that?
- She tells your siblings that. - I see.
(It puts more pressure on Su Bin.)
Why do I need to do those things because I am the eldest?
When I was young,
my parents always said this when my siblings bullied me.
"You are the older brother."
"You need to endure." They always told me that.
When I was young, I often thought,
"My parents don't love me."
(Maybe my parents don't love me.)
Do you have any worries...
other than the one about your siblings?
- Do you have any other worries? - From the first grade...
to the 1st semester of the 3rd grade,
I got picked on by my classmates.
- So... - Why?
They call me names.
They called me the rhinoceros beetle and giant hornet.
- They call you names. - Rhinoceros beetle, giant hornet.
When I was in school, kids called me colon bacillus.
(He tries to console Su Bin.)
They said, "Go away, colon bacillus."
After hearing your classmates call you names,
you go home...
to have your siblings look down on you. That's hard, right?
Yes. It's hard.
(They look down on her and bully her.)
In my opinion,
it's only a minor quarrel...
kids her age often have.
But I think Su Bin gets more upset...
because she is sensitive.
It's not like I can fix her every problem.
Su Bin wants you...
to listen to her story.
She wants someone on her side.
Everyone wants to get coddled by Mom...
- from time to time. - "It must have been hard."
Everyone wants a listening ear.
(I am very lonely.)
(Pondering)
I will listen to Su Bin more often from now on.
Su Bin is the eldest. Make it clear to her siblings...
that she has a certain standing as the eldest child.
- That's right. - "Don't do that."
"That's no way to behave to your older sister."
You should say that when the three of them are together.
"You must be happy to have a nice sister."
- Seriously. - You shouldn't say that.
Su Bin could be a nice sister who turns scary when she is angry.
Don't insinuate that Su Bin should be nice...
at all times.
Su Bin tries to discipline them.
One time, I told her...
- to scold her siblings. - Okay.
She tried to do that,
but the younger ones attacked back.
They grabbed her hair...
and such.
She can't win...
- against them. - That shouldn't happen.
(The younger siblings' rebellion is out of control.)
I think...
you shouldn't turn a blind eye to their fights.
"When in Rome, do as the Romans do."
"When in Korea, do as the Koreans do."
Every household needs rules.
(Every household needs rules.)
"Knock before entering your sibling's room."
"Don't touch your sibling's belongings."
Those rules need to exist.
If the younger siblings torment Su Bin for no reason,
they should be punished by getting less allowance...
or being made to hold their hands up.
To avoid punishments, they will form a habit.
(They will form a habit of sticking to the rules.)
(The parents need to be active in their relationship.)
Would you like to say any words of consolation?
We will pay more attention...
to alleviate the problem...
and make the younger ones be respectful of Su Bin.
We will make an effort.
(Su Bin shyly makes a heart.)
All right.
(We root for the change in the family.)
Let's have the guests vote.
The younger ones are uncontrollable even when the parents are around.
They must be worse when the parents aren't watching.
It must have been really hard on Su Bin.
This is a big worry.
Su Bin must have struggled a lot.
I also think it's a worry.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
So many people are on Su Bin's side.
- So many people voted. - Su Bin, do you feel better?
- Yes. - My goodness.
Let's see the result.
Show us the result for "Declaration to Leave Home".
- The highest score is 162 votes. - Su Bin.
If it gets 167 votes,
this worry will win.
- I think that will happen. - How many votes did it get?
(147 votes)
Thus, "My Boyfriend Is Too Much" won this week.
Thank you.
We will give the winner the prize money.
Until the day we are all worry-free...
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you. - All right.